I would always wonder what love it,
till date i havent been able to come up with an explanation which would satisfy
myself, but today a few incidents lead me to think that maybe love might be
something like this, I would like to start with the most recent one, I came across news that two close friends of
mine broke up, something out of the blue and curious I set out to enquire
rather expecting one of them cheating on the other of maybe lack of freedom to
be the cause, as I spoke to one of them I realized that there were a few more
causes, a major one being our orthodox or rather narrow minded society which
forbids one section mingling up with the other and keep relationships within
the same class. She was scared that the future holds despair and not much would
be obtained if she would head any forward with this relationship, so she took the call and decided to end matters.
Now I as a person would like to
again emphasize on the fact that ‘I don’t believe in love’ and would never do
so until a miracle happens, thus stating that when people say that their heart
beats faster when they are with their loved ones I shoo the matter off by
calling it a myth and considering it nothing more than a hormonal misbalance
which is caused by the soo called ‘CHEMICAL LOCHA’ in our brains, but what if
the myth issss true???
What if we really are supposed to
perform the act of so called love with our hearts and that is how it has been
the whole time, Whenever a fact is brought to us saying “SCIENTIFIC STUDIES
HAVE STATED THAT” we stop questioning that fact further because some DOUCHE BAG
has done it before us, but what if that douche bag was wrong and we were the
ones to find the correct explanation behind it, why stop questioning something
when someone does it before us rather than questioning it further??
Anyways getting back to the topic,
my friend decided to end things stating that the future holds nothing but despair
and that they should move on with their lives as if nothing had happened
between, what she failed to state to her guy is that she didn’t not want to
drag his life for a few more years down the lane where she would again have found
herself trapped on a sinking ship and forced to end her relationship when her
parents would be making wedding plans and she would hardly have a word in it. This
is a decision which would clearly make her the enemy, would tag her as a bad apple
and force her to be named bad person in the future of our hypocritical society.
But what we would fail to realize is that she or he has made the ultimate
sacrifice, not only has she lost her love and is now pushed aside into a dark
cave of loneliness, even further she would have to live with the guilt of having
broken someone’s heart, someone’s trust, but what goes unseen is that she has
done so after having been heartbroken herself first on the first though of
letting go of her loved one. This my friends is an example of true love
according to me, where a person is ready to sacrifice all he or she has in
order to keep the other happy, safe and out of harm’s way, loving
unconditionally is not always enough, but letting go of that dear one, just for
the idea of causing minimal damage to them, and instead getting yourself burned
in the process is TRUE LOVE!
So people please stop being too judgmental
every time, you rarely know the other half of the story, because if you did you
would have been imagining yourself in their shoes and passing a fair verdict,
that is, after considering yourself lucky to have never faced something similar
in life. J
I will soon continue with the second
part of my opinion on love, till then. Take care y’all J
